Navigating Red Flags and Exclusivity in a Fiancé's Work-Life Balance

A woman who recently accepted a marriage proposal is now seeing red flags in her relationship. She enjoys traveling for work and pleasure, but her fiancé becomes upset and feels left out when she wants to go on trips without him. She doesn't want to give up a big part of who she is for someone else, but also doesn't want to blow the best relationship of her life. In another letter, a woman asks if she should tell her son about his DNA parentage after he mentioned that his first cousin had his DNA tested. The advice columnist encourages her to be open and supportive, as many donor-conceived people are discovering their DNA heritage through various registries.