"Carolyn Hax: Dealing with a Spouse's Request to Leave After a Frightening Incident"

A reader seeks advice after asking her husband to move out following an incident involving his low-level rage and chronic depression. She's unsure if she wants him to return, fearing for her family's safety and his mental health. The columnist advises seeking support from thehotline.org, encouraging the husband to focus on his health during the separation, and prioritizing the kids' safety. Professional counseling is recommended to navigate the complexities of the situation.