The Financial Burden of My Boyfriend's Generosity

A woman is concerned about her boyfriend's financial support for his daughter and ex-wife, as he pays $3,000 a month for his daughter's college expenses and covers his ex-wife's car loan and insurance. She worries about the daughter's dependency and whether it will continue if they get married. The columnist advises her to understand that his daughter will remain a priority and that it's too early to question their financial ties. The columnist also emphasizes the importance of discussing expectations and financial goals before marriage and warns against interfering in his obligations to his family.