Navigating In-Law Visits: Setting Boundaries for Baby's Arrival

A pregnant woman is feeling pressured by her in-laws to have them visit immediately after the birth of her first child, while she wants her own mother to be with her. She is concerned about her and the baby's health and wants to set boundaries. The columnist advises her to prioritize her own needs and set a flag date for the in-laws to visit, while her husband handles communication with his family.