13 Key Lessons on Sex from 20 Years of Sexual Healing

Over 20 years of writing the Sexual Healing column, the author shares key lessons about sexuality, emphasizing that there is no 'normal,' the importance of understanding one's own desires, and the evolving societal acceptance of diverse sexual identities and practices, including age, disability, and kink. The column highlights persistent issues like low desire and the separation of sex from relationships, while also noting societal changes such as the rise of dating apps and increased openness about BDSM and polyamory.