"Betrayed Trust: Husband Breaks Confidentiality with Mother"

A reader seeks advice after her husband shared confidential information with his mother, causing an awkward situation. Carolyn Hax suggests forgiving him unless it's a recurring problem or deliberate attempt to sow discord. In another letter, a reader expresses discomfort with their mother-in-law's intrusive behavior and negative gossip. Hax advises the couple to have an open conversation about their boundaries and frequency of visits, finding a compromise that respects both their needs.