Relationship Woes: Passion Fades and Unwanted Guests at Dinner Parties

A man in his mid-60s notices a decline in his girlfriend's affectionate behavior and lack of sexual intimacy, despite her reassurances that everything is fine. The man suspects that her sudden change in behavior is not due to a fear of pregnancy, as he has had a vasectomy. Amy Dickinson advises giving her some space and encouraging open communication to address any underlying issues in the relationship. In another letter, a reader shares a humorous solution to dealing with friends who are always late to parties.