Protecting the Child: Family Blocks Estranged Mother's Reconnection

An aunt explains why she’s withholding information about her 12-year-old niece Jay from her sister, who has a history of prison time and instability. After the sister tried to reconnect, Jay refused and later hid at her grandparents’ home; a surprise visit sparked a loud confrontation, reinforcing the family’s decision to shield Jay by not sharing details about her life with her mother, with the narrator prioritizing Jay’s safety and happiness. Reddit users largely supported withholding information, arguing the sister’s involvement could harm the child.