"Listening to Your Child's Food Allergy Warnings: A Parent's Lesson Learned"

TL;DR
A pregnant mother ignored her 4-year-old daughter's complaints about brown rice, which she later discovered was due to a rice allergy. The daughter now feels untrusted and unwanted, expressing a desire to live with her best friend and never see her parents again. The advice columnist suggests using books to explain the situation, asking the daughter how to earn her trust back, and validating her feelings to repair the relationship and build stronger communication and trust.
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