Navigating Social Obligations: Ask Amy's Advice on Hospitality, Family Events, and Declining Invitations.

A reader asks if it's regular hospitality to offer overnight houseguests something to eat. The advice columnist suggests that attitudes and behavior toward providing food can change as people age and are less accustomed to frequently feeding groups. Another reader shares their traumatic experience at a funeral where the officiant made hurtful remarks about their deceased partner's "lifestyle." The columnist acknowledges that funerals can be traumatic for some and suggests seeking support. Lastly, a reader is advised to engage on social media to keep in touch with friends, even if they don't want to post on their own behalf.