When a Family Rift Meets a Wedding Invite

Two Ask Eric questions anchor this piece: a long-standing rift with Harris surfaces as his daughter’s wedding looms, and the guidance is to attend if formally invited to support other family members, while respecting Harris’s reluctance to mend fences and avoiding letting the feud disrupt other relatives; if not invited or excluded, sending a card is reasonable. The second Q&A offers tips for handling conversations about bodies: reply with a simple, compassionate boundary (e.g., “I’m sorry you feel that way”), steer away from body talk, and consider asking before commenting, since many people don’t want to discuss or be judged about their bodies.