Raising Calm Boys: Practical Ways to Help Them Deal with Anger

The piece argues anger is a normal emotion for kids and that boys often externalize it. It offers practical strategies for parents: help children label their feelings to increase awareness, soothe them calmly to model self-regulation, and use appropriate consequences for aggressive behavior. Recognize individual differences and gender patterns, and seek professional help if anger is frequent or pervasive across settings (home, school). The goal is to let kids feel anger while teaching them not to act on it with aggression.