Table dynamics: why the women at your table can boost your tip

A former waitress recalls Mel Robbins’ tip-secrets: pay attention to the women at the table, not just the person paying, as they often influence gratuities. Robbins’ mentor at a Michigan tavern taught her to focus on the women, a strategy echoed by hospitality experts who caution against ignoring others at the table. Studies cited suggest small interactions, like complimenting diners, can raise tips, and skilled servers read the entire table’s dynamics to maximize gratuities, though etiquette still holds that the tip is ultimately determined by the person paying.,