Parents and In-Laws Break Promise to Visit Toddler

A mother expresses disappointment in her parents and in-laws for not being as involved with her toddler as they had promised before her birth. Her parents are busy with work and caring for a child with autism, while her in-laws prioritize leisure activities. Dear Abby advises her to accept the situation and not let anger affect her relationships. In another query, a wife notices her husband, who vowed to diet, is secretly eating her chocolates. Abby suggests addressing it lightly if his weight loss has stalled.