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autism3 days ago•25 min saved

Grandparent ages at childbirth linked to autism risk across generations, with racial differences

A California multigenerational study found that the ages of maternal grandparents when they had their child are linked to autism risk in their grandchildren, with distinct racial/ethnic patterns: a U-shaped increase in risk for White families (young and old grandparents both associated with higher odds) and varying patterns for Hispanic, Asian Pacific Islander, and Black families. The analysis used birth records of more than 1.7 million mother–child pairs (2001–2019) and nearly 28,000 autism cases, linking grandparent ages to grandchild outcomes. Authors note limitations including focus on the maternal line and a lack of data on lifestyle factors or paternal grandparents, calling for broader, more detailed future research.

via PsyPost|

#autism #california #ethnicity

arts-and-entertainment23 days ago•21 min saved

Boomers, the Real iPad Babies: A Doomscrolling Dilemma

A Washington Post feature examines how many baby boomers are glued to smartphones and tablets, doomscrolling for hours and shaping family life, dinners, and social outings, while exploring why older adults cling to devices and the broader implications for intergenerational dynamics.

via The Washington Post|

#arts-and-entertainment #boomers #doomscrolling

advice1 month ago•18 min saved

Grandfather seeks guidance on an unmotivated, enabled grandson

A grandfather asks for guidance as his 26-year-old grandson, who earned a master’s degree but has never held a job, stays up all night gaming and shows little motivation to work, while his mother (the daughter) cushions him; he wants practical boundary-setting advice to stop enabling him.

via The Washington Post|

#advice #family-issues #grandparents

family7 months ago•4 min saved

In-Laws' Generous Offer Remains Unused Despite Repeated Visits

A woman expresses frustration with her in-laws who frequently visit but seem more interested in their own activities than bonding with their grandchildren, and are planning to leave early on her son's birthday without celebrating with him. The advice suggests setting boundaries on visits, encouraging grandparents to engage more with the children, and handling the birthday situation delicately by not sharing irritation with the child.

via Slate|

#childrens-birthday #family #family-dynamics

advice-column1 year ago•3 min saved

Parents and In-Laws Break Promise to Visit Toddler

A mother expresses disappointment in her parents and in-laws for not being as involved with her toddler as they had promised before her birth. Her parents are busy with work and caring for a child with autism, while her in-laws prioritize leisure activities. Dear Abby advises her to accept the situation and not let anger affect her relationships. In another query, a wife notices her husband, who vowed to diet, is secretly eating her chocolates. Abby suggests addressing it lightly if his weight loss has stalled.

via Chicago Sun-Times|

#advice-column #expectations #family

parenting1 year ago•3 min saved

"Grandparent's Surprise Awaits Kids on Next Visit"

A parent seeks advice on how to prepare their young children, including an autistic son, for visiting a very sick grandparent in the hospital. The advice includes being open to questions, possibly using photos or videos to preview the visit, and creating a tailored social story to help the children understand and cope with the changes in their grandparent's appearance and behavior.

via Slate|

#autism #children #family

health2 years ago•6 min saved

"Grandparental Support Linked to Improved Maternal Mental Health, Study Finds"

A study from the University of Helsinki in Finland found that mothers are less likely to purchase antidepressants if their own parents are younger than 70, employed, and in good health. The research, which tracked 488,000 mothers of young children, revealed a strong connection between access to grandparents' help and lower use of antidepressants, especially in mothers who were separated from their partners. However, instances where grandparents were older, in poor health, or living far away were associated with higher antidepressant use, highlighting the importance of social support in parenting and the potential negative impact when such support is lacking.

via WBAL TV Baltimore|

#antidepressants #grandparents #health

health2 years ago•6 min saved

"Grandparental Support Linked to Improved Maternal Mental Health: Study"

A study shows that mothers are less likely to purchase antidepressants if their own parents are younger than 70, employed, and in good health, highlighting the significant impact of grandparents on a mom's mental health. Access to grandparents' help was associated with lower antidepressant use, especially for mothers who were separated from their partners. However, instances where grandparents were older, in poor health, or living far away were linked to higher antidepressant use, suggesting the importance of social support from various sources in parenting. Forming a strong community, whether through neighbors, social media, or other groups, is crucial for mothers in raising their children and maintaining their mental well-being.

via KOAT New Mexico|

#antidepressants #grandparents #health

health2 years ago•3 min saved

"Grandparental Support Reduces Antidepressant Use in Mothers, Study Finds"

A new study suggests that mothers are less likely to purchase antidepressants if they have support from younger, employed, and healthy grandparents. The research tracked 488,000 mothers in Finland and found that access to grandparents' help was especially beneficial for separated mothers. However, when grandparents were older, in poor health, or living far away, the mothers had higher antidepressant use. While support from grandparents is valuable, other sources of social support, such as neighbors, friends, and online communities, can also play a crucial role in improving maternal mental health.

via CNN|

#antidepressants #grandparents #health

lifestyle2 years ago•3 min saved

"Viral TikTok Sparks Debate: Is 'Grandma' an Outdated Title?"

A viral TikTok video revealed a mother-in-law's unconventional request to be called "Mama" or "Queen Mother" instead of "grandma," sparking a trend among baby boomers to opt for more modern and unique grandparent nicknames. Experts speculate that this desire may stem from a denial of aging, a wish to avoid traditional labels, or a desire for individuality. While it's important to respect a grandparent's preference, ultimately, the child's parents have the final say in selecting a suitable title, setting healthy boundaries and teaching their children the importance of respectful communication.

via USA TODAY|

#baby-boomers #family #generational-changes

family-and-relationships2 years ago•4 min saved

"Setting Boundaries: Navigating Grandparents' Generosity during the Holidays"

The article discusses the issue of grandparents spoiling their grandchildren with extravagant gifts during the holidays, causing tension between parents and grandparents. The author suggests that clear communication and setting guidelines in advance can help avoid this problem. Experts recommend creating a gift registry or wish list for grandparents to follow, and encouraging contributions to a child's college fund. If grandparents continue to ignore the guidelines, it may be necessary to have a respectful conversation or return the excessive gifts. Ultimately, it is important to remember to be respectful and appreciate the grandparents' desire to spoil their grandchildren.

via USA TODAY|

#communication #family-and-relationships #gifts

parenting2 years ago•2 min saved

"Setting Boundaries: Dealing with Grandparents' Overstepping on Baby's First Birthday"

A parent seeks advice on dealing with grandparents who have taken over planning their baby's first birthday party, feeling torn between asserting their own preferences and letting the grandparents have their way. The columnist advises making a clear decision and sticking to it, emphasizing that first birthdays are more for the adults than the baby. Additionally, a reader suggests focusing on establishing boundaries in more significant areas, such as the child's upbringing. In another question, a parent seeks advice on how to help their second-grader open up about school issues, with the columnist suggesting engaging in regular activities together to create a relaxed environment for conversation.

via The Washington Post|

#boundaries #childs-emotional-well-being #communication

society2 years ago•2 min saved

"WSU Study: Pandemic Spurs Increase in Grandparent-Led Households for Children"

A study led by Washington State University reveals that the COVID-19 pandemic caused a significant increase in the number of children living with their grandparents, with nearly 510,000 children experiencing this living arrangement. While multi-generational households were already on the rise before the pandemic, the increase during COVID-19 was six times greater than expected. The surge was primarily driven by single mothers, unmarried mothers, non-working mothers, and families with children under the age of 6. The study highlights the importance of family ties as a safety net, as the need for economic and instrumental support outweighed concerns about health risks. However, the researchers note that this surge in co-residence is temporary, with numbers returning to expected levels in 2021.

via KOMO News|

#children #family-ties #grandparents

lifestyle2 years ago•5 min saved

"Exploring the Pros and Cons of Multi-Generational Living: Is It Worth It?"

Multigenerational living, where multiple generations of a family live together in the same household, is becoming increasingly popular and aspirational. A survey by Legal & General found that nearly half of adults believe it would be a good thing if multigenerational living became more common. However, the number of households with three generations living together in the UK is relatively low, with around 1.8 million multigenerational households. The lack of suitable properties and financial support from the government are cited as barriers to its growth. Some purpose-built properties exist, but most people rely on adapting existing properties. Despite the challenges, many families find multigenerational living beneficial, providing support, childcare, and a close-knit family environment.

via The Guardian|

#family #grandparents #housing

family-relationships2 years ago•4 min saved

Generational Clash: MIL's Tattoo Tribute Sparks DIL's Outrage

A mother-in-law's decision to get a tattoo in honor of her granddaughter has caused tension within the family, with the daughter-in-law feeling that boundaries were overstepped. While getting tattoos to honor loved ones is common, disagreements can arise when parents and relatives have different ideas on how to show love to children. Clinical psychologist Michele Goldman advises clear communication and setting boundaries to address such situations. It is important for grandparents to respect parents' rules and not undermine them in front of the children. Ultimately, maintaining a healthy relationship and open communication is key in navigating these challenges.

via Bored Panda|

#boundaries #communication #family-relationships