Between Carpools compiles a refreshed Be Ready for Camp guide, gathering camp packing lists, gender-specific checklists, and practical tips on labeling, laundry, pre-camp pointers, and safety to help both first-time and veteran families get their kids ready for sleepaway camp this summer.
A concerned father seeks advice on whether to allow his 13-year-old daughter to meet her summer camp boyfriend, considering her recent mental health issues and rule-breaking behavior. The columnist suggests that while caution is understandable, it may be natural for teenagers to break rules and explore relationships. The father is encouraged to respect his daughter's first romance and establish appropriate boundaries. In another letter, a mother seeks advice on her 4-year-old daughter's refusal to eat regular food, and is advised to consider an Occupational Therapy evaluation to address potential sensory issues. Additionally, a conflicted grandmother wonders about her obligation to provide college funds for her step-grandchildren, and is advised to stick to her original plan of supporting her biological grandchildren while considering other options to help the step-grandchildren. Lastly, a single mother expresses guilt for lying to her abusive ex-boyfriend about the paternity of her child, and is reassured that her priority should be her and her child's safety, while also being prepared legally if the ex-boyfriend seeks parental rights.