"Reconsidering Parenthood: Taking in Our Niece Has Given Us Second Thoughts"

A couple who took in their niece and is considering parenthood is struggling with the challenges of raising her, including her mental health issues and behavioral problems. They are unsure if they have what it takes to be parents, especially given their differing parenting styles. The advice columnist encourages them to consider having children, acknowledging their efforts and emotional maturity, but suggests addressing their parenting styles and seeking counseling. Another letter discusses setting boundaries with friends who rely on them as a personal therapist, and dealing with friends who don't respond to dinner invitations until the last minute.