Learning to Squirt Together: A Realistic, Joyful Guide

A reader asks how to squirt to surprise her fiancé; Slate's How to Do It columnist explains that squirting can happen under the right conditions but shouldn't be forced. The advice emphasizes porn literacy, mutual exploration, and focusing on comfort, pelvic-floor engagement, and G-spot stimulation to boost pleasure, prioritizing joy and connection over performance, and pointing to voices like Lola Jean for context.