A Rocket Mortgage analysis of 2018-2025 data shows that while home purchases by buyers under 35 dropped 15%, transactions involving an older co-applicant rose 3%. This shift reflects families using joint income and credit to overcome affordability barriers, particularly in high-cost regions.
Michael and Connie Frost, a 67-year-old and 63-year-old couple in Georgia, unretired to raise their 13-year-old granddaughter, Kinsley, after her mother’s severe liver disease made her unable to care for the child. The couple, who had been empty nesters for two years, took temporary and then permanent custody of Kinsley when she was two years old. To support her education and living expenses, they returned to work, managing a party rental business and an active farm, while relying on rental properties and Social Security. They are currently homeschooling Kinsley to allow for travel and flexibility, and they have faced significant financial strain, including unexpected medical costs for Kinsley’s foot surgery. Despite the challenges, the couple emphasizes providing a stable home and strong education, noting that they are parenting rather than just grandparenting.
A 34-year-old physician in Vancouver is facing a family conflict after his parents, both in their late 60s with serious health issues, demanded he subsidize their move into a high-end senior residence in the affluent Kerrisdale neighborhood. The facility costs CAD $11,000 per month for independent living, a sum far exceeding the couple's pre-tax income of CAD $8,000. While the parents possess CAD $800,000 in assets, the son argues that the escalating costs of future care levels would eventually bankrupt them, leaving him as the sole financial backstop for a decade or more. He has proposed more affordable, sustainable alternatives, but his mother has dismissed them as insufficient. The son seeks validation for refusing to fund a lifestyle his parents cannot sustainably afford, despite feeling guilty about their medical conditions.