All articles tagged with #dear prudence
A reader visits a friend and encounters a filthy, pet‑hair‑laden home that triggers severe allergies. The Prudence response stresses putting health first: wait for an invitation back, then calmly explain that you can’t stay in a pet‑heavy environment and suggest alternatives like meeting elsewhere or the host visiting you, avoiding turning the issue into a broader lifestyle critique.
A reader in Dear Prudence recounts how a lighthearted plan to keep a neighbor off their yard—bright yellow “No Entry” signs meant to be friendly—backfired when the neighbor reacted with fury and threatened a six-foot fence. The couple, who own the home and aren’t married, agree to handle the issue together and had previously opted for a less permanent solution; they remain hopeful for a calmer, collaborative resolution.
In a Dear Prudence column, Prudie says delivery tips should reflect distance and difficulty rather than the meal’s price: tip at least $1 per mile and add more if the building is hard to reach or there are stairs, wrong/unit issues, or other challenges. The cost of the meal itself should not boost pay for the driver; generosity beyond the minimum is appreciated and can help ensure faster, hotter delivery.