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Pain at Intimacy: A Couple’s Struggle with Vaginal Dryness
advice2 days ago

Pain at Intimacy: A Couple’s Struggle with Vaginal Dryness

Slate’s sex-advice column addresses a reader’s question about his wife’s pain during intercourse after brief natural lubrication. The answer suggests perimenopause-related vaginal dryness or atrophy as a possible cause, which can be helped with medical treatment (topical and/or systemic hormones prescribed by a gynecologist). In the meantime, practical steps include switching to longer-lasting lubricants (silicone-based) and exploring hydration or hyaluronic acid suppositories; it also notes other potential issues (yeast infections, infections, pelvic-floor concerns) and advises sensitivity around weight while prioritizing mutual pleasure and medical consultation for a proper diagnosis.

Husband abandons family, seeks control over breakup narrative
advice9 days ago

Husband abandons family, seeks control over breakup narrative

A reader writes Carolyn Hax about a husband who left after 12 years of marriage and 16 years together, saying he isn’t in love with anyone but wants a break from parenting and to control how the breakup is described. The columnist advises setting boundaries, focusing on the children’s well-being, and not letting the husband dictate the narrative while she plans her next steps.

Breaking the Cycle: A Survivor’s Plea to Escape a Toxic Family
advice15 days ago

Breaking the Cycle: A Survivor’s Plea to Escape a Toxic Family

Two Dear Abby letters describe a toxic, abusive family: the youngest sibling was repeatedly punished for others’ misdeeds and even faced the possibility that a brother was the real offender; Sara may have been raped by that brother, leaving the writer ostracized. Abby says the family needs abuse counseling and directs the reader toRAINN for support. In a second case, she tells a writer dealing with a depressed, dismissive father to set boundaries—invite help or move out and seek senior-services assistance if needed.

Five Years of Silence: Family Chooses an Ex Over Their Daughter
lifestyle26 days ago

Five Years of Silence: Family Chooses an Ex Over Their Daughter

A New York woman has not spoken to her family for five years after they stayed connected with her cheating ex, leaving her heartbroken; Dear Abby urges therapy and time to heal, noting that reconciliation may come through professional support rather than overnight. The column also includes advice on a separate 'home invasion' situation about a partner hosting an unannounced guest.

Trainers weigh in on the 12-3-30 treadmill craze: simple, popular, but not a miracle
advice1 month ago

Trainers weigh in on the 12-3-30 treadmill craze: simple, popular, but not a miracle

Trainers broadly view the 12-3-30 treadmill workout as a net positive for getting people moving and maintaining consistency, thanks to its low barrier and simple setup, but they caution it isn’t a magic solution or a substitute for strength work; its surge in popularity is driven by branding and accessibility, and proper technique (like avoiding the rails) matters to actually reap cardio benefits.

Realism that stings: teaching hope without killing joy
advice2 months ago

Realism that stings: teaching hope without killing joy

A Washington Post advice column discusses a reader’s question about how to teach kids not to get their hopes up. A mother aims to be a realist, warning against disappointment, but her children read it as “sucking the joy out of everything.” The piece highlights the challenge of balancing grounded expectations with encouragement, suggesting parents can acknowledge hurt while leaving space for hope.

Everyday household toxins that can kill a pet
lifestyle2 months ago

Everyday household toxins that can kill a pet

A Washington Post veterinary column warns that common household items—especially during Easter—can poison pets, including cut flowers, chocolates, and sago palms, with other hazards like raisins, ibuprofen, and pennies. It emphasizes that delays in treatment can be fatal and outlines the importance of recognizing indoor toxins and seeking prompt veterinary care when exposure occurs.

Expecting mom’s vaccine rules for visitors spark family clash, Abby advises boundaries
advice3 months ago

Expecting mom’s vaccine rules for visitors spark family clash, Abby advises boundaries

A pregnant woman asks whether visitors should be up-to-date on vaccines as her doctor recommended; some relatives resist and prefer testing or masking, leaving her stressed and resentful. Dear Abby says to prioritize the baby’s safety, follow medical guidance, and set clear boundaries (even distancing for the first three months) if family won’t respect wishes, and to consider family therapy for ongoing family tensions.

Focus Forward: February 19 Horoscope Encourages Ambition and Balance
horoscopes3 months ago

Focus Forward: February 19 Horoscope Encourages Ambition and Balance

Today's Globe and Mail horoscopes provide sign-by-sign guidance focused on resilience, ambition, and prioritizing goals, urging Aries to bounce back after setbacks, Gemini to push career plans, Cancer to pursue bold journeys even if alone, and Aquarius to stay aligned with their top priority; a birthday note champions bold, self-belief to turn ideas into reality.