
Hax advises adult child to accept mother’s withdrawal of care as final boundary
A reader writes to Carolyn Hax about a mother who, despite a lifetime of expressed regret over having children, recently withdrew the only form of care she was willing to provide. Hax advises the reader to accept this final boundary, recognizing that the mother’s actions, though painful, are consistent with her long-standing resentment and lack of genuine maternal desire.












