
24-Year-Old Caregiver Chooses Co-Living With Grandma to Help Dementia Care
A 24-year-old, Grace Yockey, moves in with her 83-year-old grandmother Valerie (Vava) in Seattle to care for her dementia, turning a family crisis into a meaningful, shared life. The arrangement, supported by daily routines, remote work, and family coordination via a “Vava Task Force,” allows Grace to continue her social life and career while giving her grandmother safer, engaged days. The piece highlights the growing role of young caregivers in the U.S.—with nearly 1 in 5 of the 63 million caregivers under 35—and presents intergenerational living as a practical response to an aging population and caregiving pressures. Grace’s story underscores the emotional value of caregiving, anticipatory grief, and the importance of self-care for caregivers.












