
Slate's Dear Prudence Advises Reader to Ignore Aunt's 14-Year Birthday Error
A reader asked Slate's Dear Prudence column for advice after ignoring an aunt's incorrect birthday message for the 14th consecutive year. The aunt, who is married to the reader's relative, consistently sends birthday wishes on October 1, despite the reader's actual birthday being in March. The reader previously corrected the aunt, who claimed the error originated from a wedding slideshow, but the mistake persisted. This year, the reader ignored the message, leading to family complaints. Jenée Desmond-Harris advised the reader to view the behavior as a quirk rather than an insult and suggested sending a brief, polite response to maintain peace.













